I am naturally light skinned but my boyfriend wants me to become dark skinned & stop going to work

FROM MESSAGE BOX:

I am a lady that was born beautiful, tall and light skinned. I met this man who is tall & dark skinned in church during praise & worship program and he seemed nice at first. We started the talking stage  and we introduced each other to our families. So as we want to start planning a wedding, the talking got deeper. One day, he told me that after our wedding I will stop using the creams I'm using and I will be using ordinary shea butter or ordinary Vaseline because he prefer his woman to be brown skinned or dark skinned. 

I was like, didn't you see that I was light skinned before you approached me?? He told me that because men are always more attracted to fair skinned women so I should become dark/brown skinned so that I will not always be attracted to men. He also said I'll stop going to work & work at home instead, I'll stop wearing fitted dress and wear loosed dresses instead, I'll stop wearing lipsticks, I'll stop posting my picture on social media and I must not become fat to the point that I'll have big booty. All these because he doesn't want most men to like me. 

I shocked🙄 

His words shooketh me 🙄.

Then, I told him that he should go to deeper life church and approach a tiny looking lady who is dark skinned. 

I broke up with him, he begged me over and over but I didn't accept him back because I deserve a man who will love me for me, and a man who is secured. I don't want an insecured man in my life. God didn't make a mistake by creating me to be light skinned and beautiful.