The weapon fashioned against me is my husband...

FROM MESSAGE BOX:

I'm a married woman with 4 kids. I'm also a graduate who used to work as a supervisor at a drink store. I've been a member of two different multipurpose cooperative societies before I got married to my husband who's a salary earner. When my husband bought his first land, and didn't have money to build on it. I borrowed money from  the cooperative & gave it to him. He did not pay it back, I was the one who paid it back from my salary. So many times I've borrowed money and gave it to my husband like that several times till we finished building the house & moved in.

I even kept praying till my husband got promoted to company manager where he is working.

 Now, the company that I was working for changed management & they sacked all old staffs including me. I now thought I should open my own drinks company. I told my husband about it and he said I shouldn't create my own company, instead I should go and look for job else where. According to him, female CEOs can't be a good wife. We've been married for 10 years with 4 kids o. My husband wants to stop me from going higher in life. I am personally done with working for other people. But, my husband insists that if I can't look for job, I should be a full house wife. 

I already filled loan form at cooperative to start up a new company & they've approved me. 

He told me that the day I start a company is the day I'll leave his house. It surprised me a lot, because I was the one that kept borrowing money to build our house but the land is in his name. And now he's saying, it is his own house. 

How can I stop my husband from being the weapon fashioned against me??

I want to have my own company, how should I go about it??