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FROM MESSAGE BOX: I am a lady that was born beautiful, tall and light skinned. I met this man who is tall & dark skinned in church during praise & worship program and he seemed nice at first. We started the talking stage  and we introduced each other to our families. So as we want to start planning a wedding, the talking got deeper. One day, he told me that after our wedding I will stop using the creams I'm using and I will be using ordinary shea butter or ordinary Vaseline because he prefer his woman to be brown skinned or dark skinned.  I was like, didn't you see that I was light skinned before you approached me?? He told me that because men are always more attracted to fair skinned women so I should become dark/brown skinned so that I will not always be attracted to men. He also said I'll stop going to work & work at home instead, I'll stop wearing fitted dress and wear loosed dresses instead, I'll stop wearing lipsticks, I'll stop pos...

FROM MESSAGE BOX: Hello everybody. Me and my husband has been married for 24 years with 5 kids. Years ago, he got a factory job in another country so he went there and always sent money but the money was never enough for bills, children's school fees & feeding. I, as the wife always add to it every time.  The remaining money from my business is what I used to buy 2 plots of land. Before my husband travelled, we already built a house together where we live in. So I started building of the house on my land till it's reached the top, but it was not roofed yet when my husband came back from his travel.  I showed him the house and he changed towards me since then. Afterwards, he told me to stop continuing the building and that I should not roof it. I stopped going to the building for like 3 years. One day, I decided to go and see the building and I saw that a part of the building has collapsed. The neighbors there told me to stop ignoring the building in order to st...